Monday, April 19, 2010

All in a weekend..

Saturday .....


Couple 1: Young, married for maybe 4 years, one baby. Arranged marriage...Can't stand each other. Can't live with each other..pursuing their own lives. Child too small to understand implications.

Couple 2: Beautiful couple...about to begin life as a family, dealing with a fatal blow life offered them...she- trying to pick up pieces of that dream she saw fall apart a few months ago!

Couple 3: "Fell in love at 15, married at 19" couple. Married for about 15 years, now handling a bitter seperation and dirt throwing that is getting muckier than mumbai sewers...teenage daughter caught in between....and who has not smiled in months now.

You want to have a life..and throw it away for something smaller, something as insignificant as ego....
You have a life built over years, and tear it apart by trodding over your loved one's and harassing them...
You want to have a life, and work for it, and life plays spoilsport and brings you back to square one, but this time, with added responsibility and fewer resources...

Somedays the whole world seems to be conspiring against people who just want to have normal lives...
Times when one almost feels guilty for having a fairly normal life....

Sunday....

Couple 4: The girl who walked out of an abusive relationship.. her baby who cried for years together in memory.
The guy- best friend, who pulled the girl to the shores and turned her back into the swan she really is...and became papa to the baby. Who persevered months together to convince the girl and her parents to give him a chance.

Her ringing laughter makes me realize that life does not always happen to be a failed test...sometimes, it is that dream that one gets to live...

9 comments:

starry eyed April 19, 2010 at 7:19 PM  

Brought tears to my eyes this post. Couple 4 sounds just about perfect!

MoodyGemini April 20, 2010 at 10:12 AM  
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MoodyGemini April 20, 2010 at 10:55 AM  

Good One..

Niv April 20, 2010 at 1:43 PM  

couple 4 sounds like me....

In love with my life April 20, 2010 at 3:18 PM  

Yes: And hope we have more of that kind

Moody: Thank you...

Niv: Yes, you too:-)Make that two couples i know of this kind.

Destibny's child April 21, 2010 at 9:29 AM  

Blessings and my good wishes to couple 4 :)

Anonymous April 21, 2010 at 7:44 PM  

True importance of a person can be understood only after losing them. It's always great to get back what we lose; but how often does this often!

Priya April 22, 2010 at 10:29 PM  

wow!very evocative. i do believe though that life gives everyone a second chance. do also post about your obseration of that sometime.
priya.

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Niv May 4, 2010 at 12:44 PM  

hey where are you?
Its 2 weeks now:)